Forgiveness is a decision, not a feeling. And it's mostly a gift you give yourself, because unforgiveness chains you to the exact thing you're trying to escape.
I've had to release people over the years. A wrong that was never acknowledged. A friend who disappeared. Here's what I learned: forgiveness is not the same as reconciliation. You can let someone go completely and still keep a wise distance. I take a wide berth around the pig pens, and I don't feel guilty about it. And the harder case is often forgiving yourself.
These devotions on forgiveness and grace won't rush you. Forgiveness in Scripture is releasing a debt, and you don't have to feel like doing it before you do it.
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Questions
About five minutes. One passage, a short reflection from Ed, and one thing to do or say that day.
No. Forgiveness in Scripture is a decision to release a debt, not a feeling that shows up on schedule. These devotionals are honest about the gap between the two.
Not necessarily. Forgiveness and reconciliation are different things. You can release someone fully and still keep a wise distance. Several of these deal with exactly that line.
