When Hope Feels Fragile

Pastor Ed Young - Lead Pastor of Fellowship Church
Ed Young

December 13, 2025

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When Hope Feels Fragile

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Romans 15:13 “May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace as you trust in him, so that you may overflow with hope by the power of the Holy Spirit.”

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We don’t often talk about fragile hope. The kind that barely holds together when life unravels. The kind that doesn’t shout or sparkle—but trembles. You know that kind of hope. It shows up after a bad diagnosis, a job loss, a fractured relationship. It lingers under the surface when you’re smiling for the crowd but breaking inside. And during a season when everyone’s saying, “Be joyful! Be merry!” — fragile hope can feel like failure.

But it’s not. Fragile hope is still hope.

Paul writes this blessing in Romans to people who knew how fragile life could be. Persecution, uncertainty, cultural pressure—they weren’t living in ease. Yet Paul doesn’t tell them to muster up strength or pretend to be okay. He points them to the source: “May the God of hope fill you...”

This matters. Hope isn’t a personality trait. It’s not positive thinking. It’s not the result of perfect plans or predictable outcomes. Hope is a byproduct of trust in a Person. And that Person—Jesus—is steady even when everything else shakes.

Romans 15:13 reminds us that God doesn’t just give hope; he is hope. And not only that, he fills us with joy and peace as we trust in him. The word Paul uses for “fill” implies abundance—overflowing, not rationed. But the condition is trust. Not control. Not understanding. Just trust.

That’s where the Holy Spirit does his deepest work. When we let go of trying to figure everything out and lean into God’s character instead. It’s not easy. Trust can feel like free-fall. But it’s the only way to move from barely-hanging-on to overflowing.

Notice how Paul connects hope to peace and joy. These aren’t separate virtues we collect like ornaments on a tree. They’re deeply connected. Joy grows where trust is planted. Peace deepens when we release control. And hope rises when we dare to believe that the same God who came through before will come through again.

Maybe your hope feels fragile right now. Maybe your prayers are quiet and your questions are loud. If that’s you, you’re not doing it wrong. You’re human. And the Holy Spirit specializes in filling humans with what they can’t produce on their own.

Charles Spurgeon, a prolific pastor and author, once said, “Hope itself is like a star—not to be seen in the sunshine of prosperity, and only to be discovered in the night of adversity.” In other words, the darker it gets, the more hope has room to shine.

The world doesn’t know what to do with this kind of hope. It knows how to chase results. It knows how to numb pain. It knows how to distract and entertain. But it doesn’t know how to sit in the waiting and believe that goodness is still possible. That’s what hope does. Hope sits in the tension and says, “God is not finished.”

This is the tension Advent embraces. It holds the already and the not yet. Jesus has come—and he is coming again. We celebrate light—but we still see shadows. We remember the promises—but we’re still waiting for their full fulfillment.

So what do you do when hope feels weak? You anchor yourself not in feelings but in truth. You look back at the faithfulness of God and let it shape how you see your future. You don’t wait to feel strong—you trust the One who is strong for you. You let his Spirit fill the gap between your belief and your fear.

And here’s the thing: even fragile hope moves the heart of God. He’s not looking for perfect trust—he’s looking for real surrender. If all you can pray is, “Help me believe you’re still here,” that’s enough. If all you can do is whisper, “Don’t let go of me,” that’s enough. He is not repelled by your weakness. He is drawn to it.

That’s the gift of Advent. It doesn’t ignore the ache. It enters it. It says: “Even here, even now, God is still working.” Even if your hope flickers, it’s not extinguished. Even if your trust wavers, his faithfulness does not.

You don’t have to fake strong hope. You just need real trust. And real trust says: “God, I can’t see what’s next, but I believe you’re already there.”

This is not a season to pretend. It’s a season to press in. To bring your fragile hope to a God who is not fragile. To let his Spirit fill the places that feel empty. And as he does, something quiet but powerful begins to grow. Hope that overflows.

Apply

Write down one area of your life where hope feels fragile. Then read Romans 15:13 aloud. Ask the Holy Spirit to meet you there. Don’t rush it. Let the verse become a prayer. Ask for trust that leads to joy, peace, and overflowing hope.

Pray

God of hope, I bring you the places where I feel uncertain and tired. I don’t want to pretend—I want to trust. Fill me with your peace. Anchor me in your joy. Remind me that hope is not about my ability to fix things, but about your promise to be with me. I choose to trust you today. In Jesus’ name. Amen.

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