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Romans 1:24 “Therefore God gave them over in the sinful desires of their hearts to sexual impurity for the degrading of their bodies with one another.”

Think

Sometimes the scariest thing God can do is stop interrupting us. Paul says that because people exchanged the truth for lies and rejected the glory of God, God gave them over. Not in a moment of rage. Not in some cosmic tantrum. But in response to a heart that repeatedly said, “I’ll do it my way.”

This is one of the most sobering lines in all of Scripture. It means God removed the restraint. He allowed people to follow their desires wherever they led. He let them feel the full weight of a life built apart from him. Not because he was finished with them, but because they were no longer listening.

Picture someone ignoring a GPS. At first, the voice keeps rerouting: turn around, recalculating, take the next exit. But if the driver refuses long enough, the GPS goes silent. Not because it broke. But because the path chosen no longer aligns with the direction it was trying to give. It still knows the way home. But now, the journey will be longer, harder, and filled with consequences that could have been avoided.

That is what Paul is describing. This is not about God losing control. It is about God honoring choice. He created humans with the dignity of free will. And sometimes, in a severe kind of mercy, he lets people have exactly what they want so they can finally see it is not what they need.

Paul specifically names sexual impurity as the visible result. Not because sex is worse than other sins, but because it powerfully reflects what is happening spiritually. Our bodies are designed with sacred intent. They are meant to reflect God’s design for intimacy, covenant, and love. But when we remove God from the equation, sex becomes distorted. It shifts from self-giving to self-serving. From holy to hollow. From worship to consumption. And that distortion does not just affect the body. It shapes the heart. It alters how we see ourselves, how we see others, and how we understand God.

Paul says their bodies were degraded. That word means “devalued or dishonored.” What was meant to be beautiful became broken. But again, the issue is deeper than the action. It starts with desire. Not all desire is wrong. In fact, desire is part of being made in the image of God. We are wired to long for connection, beauty, purpose, and pleasure. The problem is when those desires become untethered from their source. When we stop asking God what he wants for us and start demanding that our desires lead the way.

Unchecked desire becomes demand. Demand becomes habit. Habit becomes identity. And somewhere in the middle, we stop noticing how far we have drifted. Until we wake up one day, tired and empty, wondering how we got here.

And in that moment, we may think God has walked away. But the truth is, we were the ones who said “no” first. Repeatedly. And eventually, he let us taste what we thought would satisfy. But here’s the miracle: even when God lets go, he does not let go forever. Even when he gives us over, he is still watching. Still waiting. Still longing for us to come home.

The story of Scripture is full of people who experienced the letting go. Israel demanded kings, idols and autonomy, and God let them feel the consequences. The prodigal son left the father’s house for what he thought was freedom. And Paul, before his conversion, was allowed to pursue his destructive mission of self-righteousness. But every story held a moment of return. Because the point of God letting go is not to abandon. It is to awaken.

God’s wrath is not just about judgment. It is about revelation. It shows us what life without him really looks like. It removes the illusion. It exposes the lie. It lets us feel what our choices produce so that we might finally see our need for grace.

Maybe you are in that space now. Maybe God has been silent. Not because he is gone, but because he has stepped back. Maybe you are feeling the weight of decisions that once felt freeing but now feel heavy. If so, take heart. You are not beyond redemption. The road back is still open.

You can turn around. You can say, “God, I do not want what I thought I wanted. I want you.” And just like the prodigal, you will find the Father running to meet you. Not with shame. But with mercy. You do not have to keep living in what you chose. Grace makes a new way.

Apply

Ask God to reveal one area of your life where you have pushed him away. Where you insisted on your own way. Where he may have allowed you to feel the consequences of your own choices. Confess it honestly. Surrender it fully. Then thank him for not giving up on you, even when you walked away.

Pray

God, I confess that I have followed my desires without asking what you desire for me. I have pushed ahead in areas where I should have paused. I have made choices that have left me empty. But I do not want to live distant from you. If you have let me go, I ask you now to bring me back. I want your voice. Your direction. Your presence. Forgive me and lead me home. In Jesus’ name. Amen.