What If I Mess It All Up?

Pastor Ed Young - Lead Pastor of Fellowship Church
Ed Young

May 14, 2025

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What If I Mess It All Up?

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Psalm 37:23–24 "The Lord directs the steps of the godly. He delights in every detail of their lives. Though they stumble, they will never fall, for the Lord holds them by the hand."

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There’s a knot that tightens in your chest when you’re about to make a big decision. “What if I choose the wrong job? Say the wrong thing? Miss the right moment?” We don’t just fear failure—we fear that failure will define us. That one misstep could unravel everything God was trying to do in our lives. And beneath all the overthinking, second-guessing, and sleepless nights is a deeper question: “What if I mess it all up and God doesn’t come through this time?”

Our culture feeds this anxiety with a steady diet of perfectionism. Do it right. Do it fast. Don’t disappoint anyone. Don’t waste your potential. But this kind of pressure doesn’t lead to excellence—it leads to paralysis. And spiritually, it whispers a lie we’re too exhausted to refute: God is only close when you’re crushing it.

But the Bible tells a different story. It says in Romans 8:1, “There is therefore now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus.” Not less condemnation. Not temporary relief. None. That includes the sin you’re ashamed of, the mistake you regret, the missed opportunity that still plays on repeat in your head. It’s not that those things don’t matter—it’s that they no longer define your standing with God. Jesus does.

The gospel isn’t “God helps those who get it right.” It’s “God rescues those who fall flat.” That’s why Psalm 37 says even when the godly stumble, they don’t fall headfirst into shame or exile—they’re held by the hand of a God who delights in their details. Not in spite of their stumbles, but through them. Because grace doesn’t just show up at the finish line. It walks with you in the missteps, the detours, the failures you didn’t see coming.

Look at the disciples. Peter denied Jesus in his darkest hour—and Jesus restored him, not because he rebounded quickly, but because he was repentant and loved. Thomas doubted. Paul had a past. Moses killed a man. David collapsed into lust and cover-up. Over and over, Scripture doesn’t edit out failure. It redeems it. Failure doesn’t disqualify you from God’s story—it just reminds you it’s his story, not yours.

But maybe the fear isn’t just about failure—it’s about what it will cost. What if you take a step and it hurts someone? What if you obey and things still fall apart? What if you trust and you still end up waiting?

That’s where grace meets us. Not in perfect outcomes, but in surrendered obedience. You can make decisions with courage, not because you know everything, but because you trust the One who does. He’s not looking for flawless execution—he’s looking for faithful dependence. If you belong to Jesus, failure isn’t your finish line. It’s often just where the next chapter begins.

Apply

Take a step today you’ve been putting off because of fear. Make the phone call. Submit the application. Set the boundary. Take the risk. Not because you’re certain of the outcome, but because you’re certain of who walks with you into it. Let obedience matter more than outcome.

Pray

Jesus, I’ve been afraid to mess it up. Afraid to step forward unless I know it’s all going to work. Help me trust that your grace is stronger than my mistakes. Remind me that failure doesn’t disqualify me—it just draws me closer to you. I want to walk in obedience, not performance. Give me boldness to move with confidence, knowing you’re already holding my hand. In Jesus’ name. Amen.

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