When Judgment Boomerangs

Pastor Ed Young - Lead Pastor of Fellowship Church
Ed Young

September 30, 2025

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When Judgment Boomerangs

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Romans 2:2–3 “Now we know that God’s judgment against those who do such things is based on truth. So when you, a mere human being, pass judgment on them and yet do the same things, do you think you will escape God’s judgment?”

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Judgment feels powerful. It puts us in the driver’s seat. It gives us a false sense of clarity. When we judge someone, we don’t just label what they did. We label who they are. And deep down, we often believe that the very act of judging them places us above them.

Paul is pulling the curtain back on that illusion. He’s not just warning about being judgmental in general. He’s calling out the dangerous assumption that when we judge others, we’re somehow exempt from judgment ourselves. That we get to call the shots without ever being called to account.

Verse 2 reminds us that God’s judgment is different from ours. It is based on truth. Not assumptions. Not partial information. Not emotion. Not projection. God’s judgment sees beneath appearances and motives. He doesn’t jump to conclusions. He starts with reality.

Paul then asks a piercing question: “Do you think you will escape God’s judgment?” That question still echoes. It’s meant to shake us. Because the default posture of the human heart is this—I am the exception. Other people mess up and deserve consequences, but my intentions are good. My heart was in the right place. My situation was complicated. We live in a world full of spiritual loopholes, and we are experts at using them to excuse ourselves while accusing others.

It’s like standing in a courtroom and trying to serve as both the prosecutor and the defendant. You argue forcefully against someone else, highlighting every flaw and failure. But when it’s your turn on the stand, you shrink back, pleading for understanding. The problem is not just that this is inconsistent. It’s that it ignores the truth: we are all accountable to the same righteous Judge.

Have you ever thrown a boomerang? The first time you try, it feels counterintuitive. You launch it forward with force, and if it’s thrown right, it curves through the air in a wide arc – and comes right back to you. That’s what judgment does when it’s not grounded in truth and humility. It comes back. It circles around and exposes us. We throw it, thinking we’re in control, but it ends up landing at our feet. And sometimes it hits harder than expected.

Think about the people who were most outraged by the sins of others in the Gospels. It wasn’t the humble or the hungry. It was the religious elite. The ones who kept score. The ones who thought they were immune. Jesus regularly exposed their hypocrisy. In John 8, when a woman caught in adultery is dragged into the public square, a group of Pharisees demands her punishment. But Jesus, kneeling in the dirt, writes something unknown and then says, “Let any one of you who is without sin be the first to throw a stone.” One by one, the stones drop. The crowd walks away. Because grace interrupted their judgment.

Paul is trying to bring that same interruption to the believers in Rome. He’s not softening the reality of sin. He’s confronting the smugness that makes us think we’re better than others just because our sins are quieter, less visible, or socially acceptable. He’s urging them—and us—to stop weaponizing truth and start applying it to ourselves first.

Self-righteousness is sneaky. It wears all the right clothes. It talks all the right talk. But underneath, it is a defense mechanism, a way of saying, “I don’t need as much grace as they do.” The irony, of course, is that the more we think we don’t need grace, the more we actually do.

The people Paul is addressing likely felt morally superior to the idolaters he mentioned in chapter 1. But Paul is leveling the playing field. He’s saying, “You’re not better. You’re just better at hiding it.” God’s judgment isn’t fooled by appearances. He is not swayed by religious resumes. He sees the secrets, the motives, the patterns we ignore. And yet, he offers mercy not by minimizing sin but by revealing it.

This passage is not meant to drive us into despair. It’s meant to draw us into deeper honesty. If we stop pretending we are the judge, we might finally be open to being changed by the only One who judges with perfect truth and grace.

There is no freedom in finger-pointing. There is only freedom in repentance. And repentance starts when we stop aiming judgment at others and let God aim truth at us. Because when judgment boomerangs, we don’t need to dodge it. We need to let it do its work. Not to shame us, but to shape us.

Apply

Take a few moments today and reflect on someone you’ve recently judged or criticized, even if only in your mind. Ask yourself honestly: have I ever done something similar? Have I excused myself while condemning them? Bring that person before God in prayer and ask for a heart that seeks mercy over moral high ground. Ask him to show you the places where your own motives or actions need his refining light. Instead of rehearsing what someone else did wrong, let today be a moment of turning inward and letting God begin with you.

Pray

Heavenly Father, I confess that I have been quick to judge and slow to examine myself. I often assume the worst in others and expect the best in myself. Forgive me for the pride that keeps me from seeing my own need for grace. Help me live in truth, not just when it’s about someone else, but when it’s about me. Teach me to walk in humility, to extend the same mercy I’ve received, and to trust your judgment more than my own. In Jesus’ name. Amen.

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